Don't hold hands and sing bad pop songs.
Kathy Shaidle’s superb commentary on grieving the lives lost at Virginia Tech.

Don't make America look stupid and shallow to the whole world by Disneyfying your grief.

I would also add that this is not a good time to try to take the mystery of evil and encapsulate it as whatever issue one wishes to flog at the moment ie. video games - NRA - ACLU - bad parenting - smother-mothering – bottle feeding – attachment parenting – food additives – Quentin Tarantino - public schooling - Rupert Murdoch - MTV – Democrats – Republicans – global warming - fluoride in the drinking water…whatever. It’s just not that simple….